The site has been going downhill since 2005, ever since DMB released Stand Up. Roi's death almost put a nail in AMI's coffin. It'll pick up a tiny bit when the tour start up, as it always does, but this place will never be like it was years ago. People have moved on musically, married, gone to college/university/war, post on boards which have always been more active, etc. Life rolls ahead.
I know typing this changes nothing and offers no solution. AMI has become like the local hangout in a dying town. You see some of the familiar faces once in a while and you have your few stalwarts. Cozy environment. Bittersweet. And one day, like Nancies, this place will go, too. Fun while it lasted.
"Now the thing that I call living is just being satisfied with knowing I got no one left to blame." ~ Gordon Lightfoot, "Carefree Highway".
"What's the use in religion if you're any good?" ~ U2, "Mercy".
"But perhaps the dream is dreaming us?" ~ Sting, "When the Angels Fall".